Your answer to this question is between you and God. No one else need hear it.
Assuming you love more than one, list them out and rank them.
If Jesus Christ is among those you love, and if you love Him more than you love anyone else, you will always be kind, gentle, and thoughtful to everyone else on your list…and everyone else not on your list.
But if Jesus Christ is not at the top of your list, then you will, sooner or later, find selfishness in your heart regarding everyone else. Only when we love God most can we love everyone else as we should. But you don’t need me to tell you that – God is with you now and He wants to teach many things about love.
Bible notes on this post.
The purpose of this blog is to praise Jesus Christ for those who want to hear about Him without having to join a church.